Hello Scrapninny,
I agree many Women do not conform to the standard fashion shape, which causes huge frustration; my daughter like you, is the opposite to me, tall with a waist to hip ratio that does not meet the standardised fashion criterion. I on the other hand have a thick waist, large breast and small hips. I make the most of this by wearing skirts that help balance my top to hip ratio.
Good point about accessorizing, although I do give suggestions as to what can be worn with the clothing I list, I will think about how I can incorporate this on my blog.
Your new friend.